Nigerian musician Timi Dakolo has advocated greater rest for men, saying fatigue does not mean laziness and urging society to allow men to show vulnerability without being branded weak.
Dakolo released his song “Brotherly” on streaming platforms as a heartfelt call to recognize and appreciate the men in our lives, allowing them to express emotions and show their struggles.
In his viral message, Dakolo wrote: “You don’t know how much work I had to put in to become this lazy. I’m not lazy. I’m tired. Trying again tomorrow even when today felt like too much,” emphasizing that fatigue is often resilience wearing the face of exhaustion.
He said being a man should not mean suffering in silence, and that providing doesn’t mean you should lose your health, happiness, or humanity, pushing back on the message that men should remain stoic and suppress feelings.
Dakolo stressed that vulnerability is not gender-based and that brothers should speak up, discussing the struggles men face while expressing emotions and warning that the message to remain stoic can lead to detrimental effects on mental health.
“Man up no means say you go die in silence,” Dakolo said, calling his song “Brotherly” the most relatable for men and a tribute to strong, vulnerable souls.
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Timi Dakolo advocates rest for men, says fatigue does not mean laziness
Nigerian musician Timi Dakolo has advocated greater rest for men, saying fatigue does not mean laziness and urging society to allow men to show vulnerability without being branded weak. Dakolo released his song "Brotherly" on streaming platforms as a heartfelt call to recognize and appreciate the men in our lives, allowing them to express emotions and show their struggles. In his viral message, Dakolo wrote: "You don't know how much work I had to put in to become this lazy. I'm not lazy. I'm tired. Trying again tomorrow even when today felt like too much," emphasizing that fatigue is often resilience wearing the face of exhaustion. He said being a man should not mean suffering in silence, and that providing doesn't mean you should lose your health, happiness, or humanity, pushing back on the message that men should remain stoic […]
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